Nothing about Nuffing

Gorgeous Gabriel

2011-10-21T08:17:00.001-07:00

Is it possible that it's almost 2 years since this cherub was born? On the 27th Oct 2011 - we will be celebrating this gorgeous nephew of mine's 2nd birthday. I am so blessed to have spent time with him as he develops into a little man.

No longer a baby, this Dude rocks!

& here's a photo of the Dude with his Dad (my brother, Michael)

My wish for you Gabriel ....

Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Appreciate your friends. Continue to learn. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is. Mary Anne Radmacher

Thanks to my new friend in the computer Fiona I feel the need to pick up and carry on in this space where I left off :-)

Quick catchup - actually just wanted to check I remembered how to sign in to dashboard ....

2010-04-26T08:42:00.000-07:00

Spent a stunning day at Kirstenbosch yesterday, was reminded again how beautiful Cape Town is and how blessed we are to be here.

I am on leave at the moment, just arbing around at home - catching up with some chores that needed attention last year ... going to gym (working hard on my 20kg's/10km's for 2010) ... spending time with my nephew the most beautiful little boy in my world. Pictures speak for themselves, isn't he the best :-)

Last week I completed my 2nd Spar Ladies 10km, I can't run it (yet) but I did jog a few times and then walked a very fast pace, my time was 1h30m - Yey Me!

I also managed to surprise my hubby with a party at Cubana Green Point for his birthday and it was such a delight to see the surprise on his face, so worth it! *Heart* you lots!

I wish you a blessed week and enough of everything you need right now.

All about me ... right now ... good space :-)

2010-01-28T07:28:00.000-08:00

Can't remember where I saw this originally but thought it's been so long since I posted anything maybe a small step to get me going again, I can't keep up anymore :-)

1. Today I feel… blessed
2. This week… has been an emotional one, my dear uncle is in ICU in hospital - get well soon Uncle Nev
3. Last night…I took some photographs
4. Lately the song stuck in my head is… I’ve got a feeling- by Black eyed Peas
5. My New Years eve… awesome, I got to baby sit my 6 week old nephew, Gabrielle - what a blessing he is.
6. This year I’m looking forward to… learning new things, celebrating everything, spending time with my love, exploring, discovering, walking and shedding the kg's ...
7. What big lesson/s did you learn in 2009? That dreams can come true!

Baby Gabriel Vincent has arrived ... welcome sweet Angel

2009-11-01T08:09:00.000-08:00

Born : 27th Oct 2009 at 09:06am
Parents : Michael & Sharon are still beaming ...
That makes me the Proud Aunt of this beautiful baby :-)

Well done brother, he is gorgeous!

Randoms

2009-06-27T13:58:00.000-07:00

Outside my window... the stars are out.

I am thinking... How wonderful it was to share a meal with my SiL & BiL tonight, Keith made chicken & mushroom pie with the creamiest mash potato - I am so blessed to have a wonderful husband and fab-u-lous family.

I am thankful for... all that I have been blessed with thus far.

From the kitchen... the smell of the coffee machine brewing ...

I am wearing... black pj's bottoms and a white t - getting ready for bed now-now :-)

I am creating... a baby shower for my SiL - first grandchild on our side, I have so many ideas for the baby shower - just need to find a theme and go for it! Can't wait.

I am going... to love Keith and be a better wife - I seriously *heart* that man.

I am reading... Not yet but going to start a new Marion Keynes book shortly.

I am hoping...to unwind, relax, and enjoy the next 3 days off from work.

I am hearing... Keith calling me asking for a cappuccino - what was that I said above that I was going to be a better wife and here I sit blogging whilst the poor soul calls out for cappuccino.

Around the house... love my home...

One of my favorite things... is my Nikon camera!

A few plans for the rest of the week... sleep would be good. and photo taking. and maybe some sleep?

A picture to share... My beautiful SiL the one I am planning the wonderful Baby Shower for, come on 02 November ... my nephew will be born.

Have a good week.
K

Go now, and live.

2009-04-26T12:05:00.000-07:00

Haven't written for a while ...

2009-04-20T07:46:00.000-07:00

(read this somewhere today and it totally sums up how I am feeling)

Slightly overwhelmed with my thoughts and life in general. Nothing serious, it happens now and then. I do hope you enjoy this photo though, it's all I have for now.
Hoping to be back soon with a little more to talk about. Don't forget about me, ok?

He makes me smile ... The beach makes me happy ....

2009-03-15T12:49:00.000-07:00

Have an awesome week.

Another Tag thing

2009-02-26T11:17:00.000-08:00

One word ...

USING ONLY ONE WORD! It's not as easy as you might think! Copy and change the answers to suit you and pass it on. It's really hard to only use one word answers. Be sure to tag 3 other bloggers (and let them know!).. remember only ONE WORD!

1. Where is your cell phone?

table

2. Your significant other?

mine!

3. Your hair?

long

4. Your mother?

missed

5. Your father?

fabulous

6. Your favorite?

husband

7. Your dream last night?

submarines

8. Your favorite drink?

oros

9. Your dream/goal?

happiness!

10. What room you are in?

computer

11. Your hobby?

photography

12. Your fear?

unwarranted

13. Where do you want to be in 6 years?

alive

14. Where were you last night?

brother

15. Something that you are not?

thin!

16. Muffins?

no

17. Wish list item?

nothing

18. Where you grew up?

CT

19. Last thing you did?

eat

20. What are you wearing?

little

21. Your TV?

on

22. Your pets?

adored

23. Friends?

loved

24. Your life?

abundant

25. Your mood?

content

26. Missing some one?

yip

27. Car?

polo

28. Something you're not wearing?

bra

29. Your favorite store?

Any

30. Your favorite color?

grey

33. When is the last time you laughed?

earlier

34. Last time you cried?

recently

35. One place that I go to over and over?

facebook

36. One person who texts me regularly?

Keith

38. My favorite place to eat?

home

39. My favorite food?

curry

40. What did you do today?

stressed

Okay, I tag:

You
You
You

A-Z Meme

2009-02-22T05:53:00.000-08:00

Found this Meme via this friend in the computer

A - Age: 30 something ... 21st March is another birthday for me.
B - Bed size: Double, I sleep on the left side
C - Chore you hate: unraveling the vacuum cleaning, plugging it in - only to find that it is a fraction to short to reach the corner you most need it, then having to unplug it into a different socket and then packing it away afterwards, hate it!
D - Dad’s Name: Leslie Charles, I got my second name from him, but mine is spelt Lesley
E - Essential start your day item: Shower
F - Favorite actor(s): Clive Owen & Jason Statham
G - Gold or Silver: Bling it on!
H - Height: 1,78m
I - Instruments you play(ed): Had piano lessons at school - would love to learn the play the violin
J - Job title: They don't have a title for what I do
K - Kid(s): Nope - just an adorable dog & gorgeous husband!
L - Living arrangements: Alive thanks!
M - Mom’s name: Jean (also known as Jean-the-Queen) Miss you loads Mom.
N - Nicknames: Kazza, K
O - Overnight hospital stay other than birth: spider bite (1 night), breast reduction (2 nights) - prefer to overnight in my own house thank you.
P - Pet Peeve: People that are late - people that are negative and judgemental. Oh and queues
Q - Quotes you like: All that we are is the result of what we have thought. Buddha
R - Right or left handed: Right
S - Siblings: Younger brother by 3 years
T - Time you wake up: 06:45 weekdays - on weekends I don't have an alarm, I wake up when I want to
U- Underwear: Yes
V - Vegetable you dislike: I enjoy all vegetables.
W - Ways you run late: I’m usually on time (rarely late, honestly)
X - X-rays you’ve had: back and neck (falling down small flight of stairs at brother's house 2 years ago - was v. lucky) Do the x-rays at the dentist count?
Y - Yummy food you like to prepare: Only thing I might be really good at is making divine salads and Keith would say I make the best egg & toast sandwiches
Z - Zodiac- Aries, on the cusp 21st March

All about Brown

2009-02-18T11:05:00.000-08:00

I came home tonight and was inspired to take pictures around the house that was Brown! That pretty much sums up my entire house as everything is neutral, choc, cappuccino and brown! Not sure what it means - maybe I'm ready to change the interior or maybe it's just that I'm feeling wholesome and connecting with the earth - deep ... no pun intended ;-)

Hope you like my collection of browns, in the 1st group of photo's :

Wall hanging on either side of the lounge suite
My dog, Tigger!
Circle of Friends with a candle ... I light this and each time I am reminded of the symbolism of friends standing around a campfire in deep communion and the circle of friendship indicating that friendship never ends. I brought this one all the way from Edinburgh Scotland. I heart it!
My curtain & tie back. Love the richness of the choc brown taffeta type curtains

In the 2nd group of photo's:
Our bed!
My new pebble mat at the front door. I just had to have it, drove to 3 different stores to find it, eventually found it at Tygervalley!
Art hanging on my wall, compliments of my very talented cousin Darren!

3rd Group of photo's
Another shot of the art hanging on my walls in the house.

You like? Me too!

Brown says stability, reliability, and approachability. It is the color of our earth and is associated with all things natural or organic.

Effect of Brown

How the color brown effects us physically and mentally

a feeling of wholesomeness
stability
a connection with the earth
a sense orderliness

The Scent of Brown

Chocolate was the original scent of the brown colored Magic Scents Crayons from Binney & Smith Inc. introduced in 1994 with mostly food scents. There were numerous reports that children were eating the food-scented crayons, so the food scents were retired and replaced with non-food scents. The scent for the color brown became "dirt"

Nutmeg: A spicy scent, smells just like fresh ground Nutmeg. A great Holiday scent, very yummy. Aromatherapy benefits: Rejuvenating, uplifting, energizing.

Almond: Smells like Almond extract. A nutty almond, scent. Wonderful and light. Aromatherapy benefit. Anchoring, and strengthening

Songs with Brown in the Title

* "Another Brown World" [i] by Coil on Unnatural History II
* "Big, Bad Leroy Brown" by Jim Croce
* "Big Brown City" by Lynn Miles
* "Black, Brown and White" by Big Bill Broonzy
* "A Boat Like Gideon Brown" by Great Big Sea
* "Bobbie Brown Goes Down" by Frank Zappa on Sheik Yerbouti
* "Bring Back That Leroy Brown" by Queen on Sheer Heart Attack
* "Brown Eyed Girl" by Lagwagon
* "Brown Eyed Girl" by Van Morrison on Blowin' Your Mind!
* "Brown Eyed Handsome Man" by Chuck Berry
* "Brown Eyed Pickle Boy" by Tripping Daisy
* "Brown Hat/Tam Lin/The Night" by Einstein's Little Homunculus
* "Brown Sugar" by The Rolling Stones on Sticky Fingers

Culture of Brown: Brown represents wholesomeness and earthiness. While it might be considered a little on the dull side, it also represents steadfastness, simplicity, friendliness, dependability, and health. Although blue is the typical corporate color, UPS (United Parcel Service) has built their business around the dependability associated with brown.

Bye for now.

19 arb things you might not know about me...

2009-02-02T11:08:00.000-08:00

1. I've never broken a bone - had to get stitches once in my left leg after a shaving accident.

2. I have always been a sucker for stray dogs! I can't just ride past a stray dog without feeling sorry for them. Since we got our Tigger, I can only imagine if he were alone on the street how it would be ... we did rescue him from the streets and now I believe he thinks he is in living doggy heaven with us :-)

3. With all the snow in the UK at the moment, I'd swop places with anyone in a heartbeat to be in Scotland right now! Anyone ... ?

4. The last holiday I had was in 2006 when I went to Scotland/London during March. I spent my birthday with my lovely family in Edinburgh. I vowed never to go on holiday again without Keith. I missed him too much ♥

5. I listen to a variety of music my favourite at the moment is Watershed (SA local band). Missed an opportunity to see Parletones this weekend, ah well next time.

6. I got chicken pox as I was doing my last final exam in Matric, I remember writing it alone in an office - just got one scar to prove it (Oh and a Matric certificate).

7. I ♥ taking photo's on my Nikon camera, new found hobby and I'm still learning, but I ♥ it! I keep my photos backed up in 2 different places in case I loose my photo's - You could probably say I'm a little paranoid.

8. I miss my Mom so much. She passed away on 02 Aug 1998 - I will never get over it, I just learn to live with it each day. She was an amazing lady. Jean-the-Queen!

9. One of my biggest pet peeves are when parents don't buckle their little kids in the car! Don't they even care?

10. Totally into White Chocolate Oreos & a glass of cold milk .... I ♥ it! Mmm.

11. I ♥ going to Blouberg Beach, walking in the sand, sitting on the rocks, just being in the moment. I have loved it since my Mom used to take us there as children ... and going back there is always as great as I remember it being back then with her.

12. I had my ears pierced when I was 9. I had l-o-n-g hair at the time and I remember my mom telling me that I could only have my ears pierced if I cut my hair .... she also taught me the art of bargaining!

13. Despite what everyone may think - especially those that know me well - I am really shy about meeting new people - I get nervous! My Myers Brigg profile confirms I am IFSP

14. But you won't believe I am nervous and when I tell people that I am actually shy, they find it hard to believe, so I'm an introvert by nature but forced to be extrovert at times. Not by preference. I have "met" some fab-u-lous people in the computer and ♥ to read their blogs (you know who you are)

15. I ♥ shoes - but would prefer to be barefoot. I also love having pedicures.

16. I ♥ shopping too! Lately been shopping for household items, waiting for the winter season to update the wardrobe.

17. I can be extremely random at times ... you can tell by reading this.

18. I have a younger brother, Michael, who is married to Sharon. They have just moved out of a flat into a house with a swimming pool and garden, they are happy. I ♥ them! I also have 2 other SiL's, Charnel & Tania, both amazing girls. I am blessed.

19. My dear aunt was diagnosed with breast cancer in August 2008, she has had her 6 sessions of chemotherapy, last one in Jan 09 and needs to go back in March for an assessment. Her courage and strength during this time has made me ♥ her even more than I already did. Through her struggle it has made us as a family remember that we are all in this together, we need to support each other - and sometimes just be there for each other and let each of us know that we are loved and we mean the world to each other. Thank you Mother T you've taught me a lesson (or two ...)

That's it for tonight got to get Keith a Nurofen he is suffering with a terrible headache, he get's cluster headaches and I wish there was something more I could do for him. It's terrible, go take a peep here to read just how hectic these headaches are.

Mwah

I'll be back soon ...

2009-01-28T23:20:00.000-08:00

It's been a while, I haven't stopped here to write anything feel bad - but also don't know what to write. I've been easing into 2009 and wanting to keep the spirit alive. Been taking photographs with my Nikon & experiementing with the tripod and different lences capturing images. Being down to Blouberg beach for long walks, seen many sunsets and just enjoying the moments.

Mother T has had her final session of chemotherapy and goes back on 05 March for a final test, we will continue to send prayers in her direction. She is strong!

Had our first dinner club last week, was at SiL's place, made 2 new friends, welcome G&N - hope to see more of you guys.

Have a blessed day and speak soon.

Mwah

2009

2008-12-31T05:43:00.001-08:00

This is my wish for you:
comfort on difficult days,
smiles when sadness intrudes,
rainbows to follow the clouds,
laughter to kiss your lips,
sunsets to warm your heart,
hugs when spirits sag,
beauty for your eyes to see,
friendships to brighten your being,
faith so that you can believe,
confidence for when you doubt,
courage to know yourself,
patience to accept the truth,
love to complete your life.

AUTHOR UNKNOWN

Support Breast Cancer Month

2008-10-11T10:54:00.000-07:00

Cancer may come unexpectedly into your life, Bringing fear, hard times, and great strife. Families suffer and the end clearly unknown.
Families are stronger than ever and not alone.
Our personalities must stay optimistic, Feeling better and free will be realistic.
The experience could be a long, hard ride, Twists and turns in which you have cried.
When you fight and beat it and go on to live, Don't forget the people who are here to give. Love and care will forever and always stay.
Cancer will be knocked out of the way.
Your soul is and will be stronger than this; It can conquer cancer, destroy and dismiss. Courage and memories are very much needed, As tiring treatments have faithfully succeeded.
Friendship, family, and faith cannot be suppressed; They are the loving souls that make you blessed.
By: Michaela Fournier

Positive thoughts ...

2008-10-08T08:17:00.000-07:00

Had some time this afternoon to catch up on some blogs and stopped and said a couple of prayers for friends in the computer:
For Tricia and Nate & beautiful baby Gwyneth - go one have a peep they have the most amazing story and God is blessing them each and every day
For a new blog that I discovered this afternoon, Katie needs our prayers
For one of my favourite bloggers, just cos she is such an inspiration and I admire her, but then in the same category I also love to read her daily updates and hers, these ladies are fab - and local is lekker!
My Mother T had a second dose of chemo today, I pray for her to feel better soon and continue to be strong.

I'm grateful and I'm blessed - What are you grateful for today?

Out and about in Cape Town

2008-09-28T08:48:00.000-07:00

Recovered from the engagement party last night, decided to not waste the day indoors. Went for a drive to beach, put my toes in the water (freezing!), took in the view, walked with Tigger & Keith.
Not inspired to write much today. Here's to the week ahead!

It's the weekend baby

2008-09-25T22:43:00.000-07:00

It's the weekend and what does that mean in Cape Town ... Rain!

I don't mind I love the rain but enough is enough, bring on Spring?

Plans for the weekend, feel like going to a movie tonight and having popcorn and coke light! Any recommendations on what to see? Wouldn't mind seeing Hansie movie or what about Mamma Mia?

Tomorrow morning is the usual pamper Saturday, starting off with me arbing around Canal Walk, can't wait to see what's new in Ginger Mary, need and outfit for Saturday night, going to my bosses engagement party! Then off to Valetta for my usual blow dry and pedicure/manicure.

Sunday with a little bit of luck, the weather will be fine and I can go out and use my new toy, Nikon D40 with signma lens and capture some moments in history. I'm inspired by many of my friends in the computer as they take amazing pic's and I too want to learn this new skill. I'm very new at this and was wondering is there anyone out there that can offer some free tips for me? Please.

Keith has been working v.v. hard - reckons he needs this weekend to catch up and relax.
My aunt that had the masectomy is recovering, she is so loved and with prayers she is well on the road to recovery, her cancer has brought us all closer together. I love my Mother T.
President Mothlanthe is sworn in as South Africa's new head of state.
It's Friday, I'm felling happy! And also the fact that Maggie is at my house, cleaning and making it all pretty for me for the weekend, I heart Maggie!
Thinking of my Dad today, going to give him a call later just to say hello and let him know I was thinking of him.
I have the most handsome kind precious brother in the whole wide world and he is married to the most amazing funny kind lady, what more could a sister want.
Keith is also blessed with 3 brothers, 2 of them also have amazing wives, my one SiL was also my best friend in high school, she introduced Keith and I (thanks Charnel!)
I live in Cape Town, nothing better in the world, but would give up cappcucino's if I could be in Scotland again. Did I mention that Keith and I got engaged in a castle in Scotland - St Margaret's Chapel on Edinburgh Castle. I also have the most amazing family living in Edinburgh and I would love to have a cup of tea and a hot buttie with A.Linda and catch up. Miss you guys lots.
Within my sensitivity lies my stregth.
Bye for now have a safe weekend you all.

Me? Portrait of an ISFJ - Introverted Sensing Feeling Judging

2008-09-18T07:56:00.000-07:00

The Nurturer

As an ISFJ, your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you takes things in via your five senses in a literal, concrete fashion. Your secondary mode is external, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit into your personal value system.
ISFJs live in a world that is concrete and kind. They are truly warm and kind-hearted, and want to believe the best of people. They value harmony and cooperation, and are likely to be very sensitive to other people's feelings. People value the ISFJ for their consideration and awareness, and their ability to bring out the best in others by their firm desire to believe the best.

ISFJs have a rich inner world that is not usually obvious to observers. They constantly take in information about people and situations that is personally important to them, and store it away. This tremendous store of information is usually startlingly accurate, because the ISFJ has an exceptional memory about things that are important to their value systems. It would not be uncommon for the ISFJ to remember a particular facial expression or conversation in precise detail years after the event occured, if the situation made an impression on the ISFJ. ISFJs have a very clear idea of the way things should be, which they strive to attain. They value security and kindness, and respect traditions and laws. They tend to believe that existing systems are there because they work. Therefore, they're not likely to buy into doing things in a new way, unless they're shown in a concrete way why its better than the established method. ISFJs learn best by doing, rather than by reading about something in a book, or applying theory. For this reason, they are not likely to be found in fields which require a lot of conceptual analysis or theory. They value practical application. Traditional methods of higher education, which require a lot of theorizing and abstraction, are likely to be a chore for the ISFJ. The ISFJ learns a task best by being shown its practical application. Once the task is learned, and its practical importance is understood, the ISFJ will faithfully and tirelessly carry through the task to completion. The ISFJ is extremely dependable.
The ISFJ has an extremely well-developed sense of space, function, and aesthetic appeal. For that reason, they're likely to have beautifully furnished, functional homes. They make extremely good interior decorators. This special ability, combined with their sensitivity to other's feelings and desires, makes them very likely to be great gift-givers - finding the right gift which will be truly appreciated by the recipient. More so than other types, ISFJs are extremely aware of their own internal feelings, as well as other people's feelings. They do not usually express their own feelings, keeping things inside. If they are negative feelings, they may build up inside the ISFJ until they turn into firm judgments against individuals which are difficult to unseed, once set. Many ISFJs learn to express themselves, and find outlets for their powerful emotions. Just as the ISFJ is not likely to express their feelings, they are also not likely to let on that they know how others are feeling. However, they will speak up when they feel another individual really needs help, and in such cases they can truly help others become aware of their feelings.

The ISFJ feels a strong sense of responsibility and duty. They take their responsibilities very seriously, and can be counted on to follow through. For this reason, people naturally tend to rely on them. The ISFJ has a difficult time saying "no" when asked to do something, and may become over-burdened. In such cases, the ISFJ does not usually express their difficulties to others, because they intensely dislike conflict, and because they tend to place other people's needs over their own. The ISFJ needs to learn to identify, value, and express their own needs, if they wish to avoid becoming over-worked and taken for granted. ISFJs need positive feedback from others. In the absence of positive feedback, or in the face of criticism, the ISFJ gets discouraged, and may even become depressed. When down on themselves or under great stress, the ISFJ begins to imagine all of the things that might go critically wrong in their life. They have strong feelings of inadequacy, and become convinced that "everything is all wrong", or "I can't do anything right".
The ISFJ is warm, generous, and dependable. They have many special gifts to offer, in their sensitivity to others, and their strong ability to keep things running smoothly. They need to remember to not be overly critical of themselves, and to give themselves some of the warmth and love which they freely dispense to others.

So I'm - Introverted Sensing with Extraverted Feeling - who would have guessed?

PS: Keith bought me a present on the weekend, I'm inspired by my friends in the computer to take photographs and he thought this was a great tool to start with ... Thanks Babes, watch this space I'll make you proud!

MiL

2008-09-01T12:00:00.000-07:00

My mother in law ... Keith's Mom, Jay, Jeanette. She's known to many as I've just mentioned, but to me, she'll always be, My Mother in Law!

Thanks for the support shown to me during this time with A.Teresa's breast cancer, thank you for phoning to ask how she is doing, thank you for asking how I am feeling. Thank you for you!

You've taught me not to live my life to please other people. You've made a difference in my life and I love you lots, Strawberry!

Thank you for a bringing your wonderful son, Keith, into this world so that I can spend my days with him.

Everyone wants to ride with you in the limo, but what you need is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down (Oprah)

PS: See you on Saturday, Keith is leaving us money for Sushi & dvd's to make up for when he is in JHB with Colin. Looking forward to our pajama party! Yeah!

Weekend Update

2008-08-24T07:45:00.000-07:00

Had a blessed weekend, went to visit my aunt in hospital, she had a mastectomy on Thursday and by yesterday afternoon, look healthier than the visitors sitting around her bed. It's the power of prayer that brought her to where she is now. She is on the road to recovery and as she said with such strength yesterday, she is a cancer survivor! I adore you Mother T.

Keith & I took Tigger for a walk in Durbanville on Sunday, was fresh & chilly. Managed to get a few pic's of the scenery and was reminded how lucky we are to live in such a beautiful place.

Of course, in my mind, there is no better view in my eyes than Keith & Tigger. Love you lots and thanks for a great weekend babes.

Things to be grateful for this week:
Mother T coming out of hospital this week
I'm having a l-o-n-g weekend, going to sleep in on Monday morning, hit the snooze button ...
Going to Stellenbosch been offered a complimentary hair colour (can't say no to that)
Looking forward to our dinner club on Saturday 30th Aug at Charnel & Colin - love spending time with the people that count in my life
Going to Durban & Johannesburg this week
Won a gift hamper from a beauty house through a magazine competition, I've selected my products, just waiting for the hamper to arrive
(will come back and add to this list ...)

Have yourselves a good week also.

Breast Cancer

2008-08-14T11:26:00.000-07:00

Today, I learned the news of 2 people that have been diagnosed with Breast Cancer.
It's come as a big shock. The 1 lady is so dear to my heart that I can't imagine life without her. She is my rock. She stood by me when my Mom passed away. She stood by me when I married Keith. She is my person!

The other lady is a sister of a dear friend of mine. My thoughts & prayers go out to your whole family Leila.

One never knows what the right thing is to say to someone diagnosed so I looked for the words in the computer and with a little help came up with this ...

What do you do if your dearest friend or family member has cancer? You support their choice. You listen to why they have decided to take the course of action they are on, and you stand by them. You don't discredit the treatments, you support their ability to trust and believe in the treatment.

The mind-body connection is very strong and it is proven that if a patient believes that they will heal using a certain treatment, their chances are much better that they will heal using that treatment. You can be afraid with them, you can be furious at the cancer with them, you can be sad with them. But when it comes to the treatments they are going through, you stand by them and help them to believe.

Believe that they will get well. Believe that they will survive and thrive. Believe that you will too.

Mother T & Farzanah my thoughts and prayers are with you both today. While you work things out and wait for better times to start - I wish you the smiles of family and friends to lift your spirits and warm your heart.

Tomorrow, I will phone for an appointment for a mammogram! I encourage you reading to do the same.

Jean-The-Queen, my Mother

2008-08-02T08:34:00.000-07:00

10 Years ago today I said Farewell to my Mother.
When a Mother dies, it it like someone cuts a piece of your heart out with a sharp knife.
It was from My Mother that I first learned, to think, to feel, to imagine, to believe.
Not a day goes by without me remembering her, she was my best Friend.
Mom, Thank you for my life, I will always always miss you and love you.
Till we meet again.
With love from your Daughter
xxx

SiL's 40th

2008-07-29T05:33:00.001-07:00

Celebrated my SiL & BiL's joint 40th on Saturday night at the Italian Club. Here's a couple of photo's from the event. Sharon, Charnel & I

Keith & I

Charnel & I

BiL & SiL - don't you agree, they look good for 40! Thanks Colin & Charnel, we had a great time and we are very blessed to have shared the special event with you.

Life hands us many different things, good and bad. One of the greatest gifts we receive is the love of a good friend.

Love, always.

Long weekend ...

2008-07-25T07:05:00.000-07:00

Enjoying a long weekend, only back to work on Tuesday again. Nice.

Spent the day arbing in the malls this morning, was looking for something fabulous to wear to 2 functions coming up, tomorrow night it is my SiL & BiL's joined 40th party. Then next week have a 21st birthday to attend. Shoo thought I was done with 21st ... makes me feel too old!
My house is spotless, Maggie was here today to wave her magic wand and now the house is looking fab, here's a couple of pic's that I've just taken of my favourite rooms in my house ...

The dining area, I love it as many a good meal has been served there, special memories shared with friends/family around the table.

The lounge, who can resist a Coricraft couch with pillows ... just hate having to fluff them up when I'm done sitting on it. But they are very comfy indeed ...

Then I have another fav spot, picture this, lying on the day bed, curled up with soft blanket, fire going and reading a great book. I love this chill out zone!

Our bedroom ... say no more :-)

The 2nd Bathroom (who forgot to put the toilet seat down ... Mr L)

Monday, Keith and I are going to spend the day together, he is also off so we will go to a movie, have some lunch and just be together. Nice! Looking forward to it.

Thanks for visiting my house, wish I could invite you over for a cappuccino and chat. This will have to do then.

Have an awesome weekend friends in the computer. Praying for CF, Pepe, hoping So Close's A&K feel better soon, can't wait to read about her weekend update, going to lurk on cousin's blog in UK to catch up on her beautiful family, enjoy the writing of new mommy and her darling baby girl, speaking about mothers and all, found this mom blog through her blog and I think she totally rocks, what an awesome Mother you are to your 3 boys.

Be safe you all.
K

It's your life

2008-07-05T09:45:00.000-07:00

To live content with small means; to seek elegance rather than luxury; and refinement rather than fashion; to be worthy, not respectable; and wealthy, not rich; to study hard, think quietly, talk gently, act frankly; to listen to stars and birds, to babes and sages, with open heart; to bear all cheerfully, do all bravely, await occasion, hurry never; in a word, to let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious grow up through the common. This is to be my symphony. William Henry Channing

It's freezing in Cape Town today, real winters day, I'm not complaining this is my favourite time of the year. I love the rain, I love the coldness, I love that I don't need to make an excuse to just want to be at home. I love my home, Keith made a fire this afternoon, I lay on the couch reading my new Marian Keyes book, had a cup of tea - was great. Brought me to the reality that all I want is right here, right now. I'm blessed.

Going to snuggle up now and watch a dvd, Keith is going to make rump steak with potato wedges (Oh yes ... another good reason why I *heart* Winter, comfort food ...) speaking of comfort food which translates to weight-gain, I have been to the gym 3 times this week & signing up again with Nelius for another month, boy did he make us build up a sweat on Wednesday, was stiff for 2 days after that. Looking forward to the challenge and my goal of feeling fab & healthy. Wish me luck and leave me a motivational comment, got loads of kg's to loose.

Enjoy your evening all.

Hotels & Facebook

2008-06-23T11:53:00.000-07:00

Hello from JHB, sitting in my hotel room at Falstaff Hotel, just had a wonderful dinner and best part, just needed to move the tray off the bed and leave it until room service come and clean it away!

Had a easy flight from Cape Town no delays (!) and stood in line to collect luggage and saw one of my favourite people in my computer, Tertia and I was too shy to say hello. I stood at the baggage collection and just stood there in awe. Hope you are also in your hotel room, feet up, wine in hand and that your trip is a success.

What are the chances of bumping into another favourite person in my computer, Wenchy from her blog I know she lives in JHB. I'm only here for a short time but that would be awesome, I wonder if I will be too shy to say hello to her as well. Well to both of you, You Rock!

Off to take a bubble bath now, best part about being in a hotel room on my own ... total control of the TV remote ... and the TV is not even on. Just me, laptop, Ismael Lo on the MP3 and white crisp linen sheets & duvet covers. Sheer bliss!

Have a blessed week my friends in the computer and may I ask that you continue to pray for Nate, Trisha & Baby Gwyneth.

Blessings & Hidings

2008-06-09T07:23:00.001-07:00

Wanted to write a post, got to the title and couldn't think what I wanted to say. Just wanted to let everyone know how I was feeling today. Good!

It's a Monday afternoon, survived the Monday Morning Blues and getting my mind ready for a cardio session at the gym this evening.

Feeling bad (still!) for hitting my dog ... I can't believe I did but it was in a moment of complete panic and relief that I nipped him on the leg. We took him for a walk yesterday afternoon and he disappeared in the garden and manage to climb through a fence to the neighbours behind. I searched all over for him, called him, but the little shit didn't come. I then heard dog's barking behind where we were looking for him and then realised he must be tormenting the dog's - I got into my car and drove around to look for him - left my frantic husband on the premises in case Tigger came back to look for us! Couldn't find him, was just about to drive away when I see him sniffing a plant! Can you believe it. Out of complete relief I scolded him and he just flopped down and I nipped him *hard* on the leg. Got him into the car and drove back to where Keith was still searching for him. We both ignored him for a while (all of 5 minutes ... I applied the naughty chair rule to the dog). But today I feel worse, how could I do that to him. Keith reckons Tigger has long since forgiven me ... however I still feel bad, can't wait to get home after gym and take him for a long walk and shower him with cuddles tonight.

Ok so what else am I grateful for today ... everything and more. I am blessed and I continue to thank God for this.

My dad at the ripe age of 65 got his first PC this weekend, now is wanting to register on facebook and learn to surf the net .... precious! For father's day my treat for him is to send him on a crash course to learn how to navigate his way around ... I don't have the patience to teach him so I will paysome to do it for me. Bless him.

To my friends in the computer I wish you all a happy week and I look forward to browsing (not lurking) your pages.

Keep warm & keep updating.

Mwah!

PS: Still couldn't come up with an appropriate title for this entry so will just call it ... blessings & hidings

Winter, Cape Town, Fire, Warmth, Love, Cosy & Cappucino

2008-05-24T03:49:00.000-07:00

Quite is the fire. Quite is the moment Quite is the time for laughter Quite is the time for hope Quite is the time for passion A quite fire is like timeless echos in the wind
by: Margot Lindsey

I'm your winter fire, surrounding you, embracing you, warming you

Missing in Action

2008-05-14T00:01:00.000-07:00

Hi, just wanted to let you know I haven't fallen from the face of the earth, or gone on any long vacation, or "out fishing" .... just lost the plot a bit to blog. Being following my regular blog's love reading about their daily adventures, how God is blessing them (http://cfhusband.blogspot.com/), how soon they will be a mommy to "TWO CHILLENS" (http://www.babeless.blogspot.com/), how they are being loved, spoilt and treasured (http://thenocturnalwench.wordpress.com/).

Thank you to my blog readers as well, in the words of Arnie ... I'll be back.
Have a good day ya all.

A Simple Day by Fion Lim

2008-03-30T07:36:00.000-07:00

To wake up in the morning, knowing you're still alive,
To know you have a choice each day, starting afresh,
To find joy in everyday, acknowledging simple pleasures,
To live in the present moment, engaging your awareness,
To count the blessings in life, believing abundance abounds,
To enjoy the work you do, following your passion,
To make a little difference, adding to the universe,
To be what you are, listening to your inner being,
To give away love, rejoicing in the chance to give,
To receive love with gratitude, feeling good about it,
To smile at strangers, seeing how infectious it can be,
To speak words of kindness, spreading a little warmth,
To understand with compassion, opening up your mind,
To play with children, nurturing your inner child,
To appreciate the nature, soaking up all the beauty,
To feel the warmth of the sun, glowing upon your skin,
To listen to the falling rain, pattering on the grounds
To taste the richness of food, sliding down your throat,
To smell the freshness of air, filling up your lungs,
To see the falling night, concluding a well-lived day,
That's life, that's living,
That's the core of what really matters...
And if I've missed out anything,
Please let love make up for all of it.

Bless them Lord

2008-03-27T04:38:00.000-07:00

Please join me in prayers for the following families in my computer ... I read their blogs daily and would love to share their journey - they are truely God's people and daily inspire me with their stories:-

http://evajanette.blogspot.com/
http://mnssams.blogspot.com/
http://www.especiallyheather.com/
http://cfhusband.blogspot.com/
http://cortmcgowan.blogspot.com/
http://www.babeless.blogspot.com/

Birthday Photo's 2008

2008-03-23T06:28:00.000-07:00

Our Anniversary, 7 years

2008-03-23T05:46:00.000-07:00

When you smiled you had my undivided attention. When you laughed you had my urge to laugh with you. When you cried you had my urge to hold you. When you said you loved me, you had my heart forever.

The world is filled with reasons why I love you.

This day, 24th March 2001, I married my friend, the one I laugh with, live for, dream with and love.

Sandra (Sandy) My Friend

2008-03-23T05:43:00.000-07:00

As I look back on all that's happened..growing up, growing together, changing you, changing me -- there were times when we dreamed together, when we laughed and cried together. As I look back on those days, I realize how much I truly miss you and how much I truly love you. The past may be gone forever..and whatever the future holds, our todays make the memories of tomorrow. So, my lifetime friend, it is with all my heart that I send you my love, hoping that you'll always carry my smile with you, for all we have meant to each other and for whatever the future may hold.

-- Author Unknown

Tigger

2008-03-23T05:28:00.000-07:00

He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion. -- Author Unknown

My Valentine, My Love, My World!

2008-02-14T06:15:00.001-08:00

If Not For You
If not for you, I wouldn’t know What true love really meant.

I’d never feel this inner peace; I couldn’t be content.
If not for you, I’d never have The pleasures of romance.

I’d miss the bliss, the craziness, Of love’s sweet, silly dance.
I have to feel your tender touch;

I have to hear your voice;

No other one could take your place;

You’re it; I have no choice.
If not for you, I’d be adrift;

I don’t know what I’d do;

I’d be searching for my other half,

Incomplete, if not for you - By Joanna Fuchs

To me family means putting your arms around each other and being there

2008-01-22T00:19:00.000-08:00

left to right : Keith (husband), Michael (brother), Karen & Sharon (Sister-in-Law)

You don't choose your family. They are God's gift to you, as you are to them - Desmond Tutu

A brother is a friend provided by nature. -- Legouve Pere

2008-01-22T00:12:00.000-08:00

It was nice growing up with someone like you - someone to lean on, someone to count on... someone to tell on!
-- Author Unknown

Small steps ...

2008-01-21T10:41:00.000-08:00

Each day I start my day off by thinking of Tricia, Nate & Baby Gwyneth.

Today was one of the best posts and it included a video link with Tricia, she has her voice back. I encourage you all to spend some time reviewing old posts on the website and allowing the spirit to reach you.

Please continue to pray for them and everyone else that has been touched by this story. I know, my life has changed through their journey.

I'm not spiritual like the other commentors on the site, but I'm learning and want to dedicate my life. Small steps ...

Have a blessed day everyone.

The Power of Prayer

2008-01-17T10:38:00.000-08:00

Tricia's awake!

Confirmation that God is working miracles ...

2008-01-15T11:24:00.000-08:00

Please pray for Nate, Tricia and Baby Gywneth.
Through their story I too will learn and accept and trust and believe.
Thank you Lord for leading me.

Happy Birthday Mother Teresa

2008-01-06T04:14:00.000-08:00

Family faces are magic mirrors looking at people who belong to us, we see the past, present, and future. -- Gail Lumet Buckley

Wishing you a wonderful birthday, we are blessed to share another one with you.

I thought the significance of this photo was good, it's our Mother's two sisters and her brother, the only one missing there was her, but she was there with us celebrating from above.

Here's to many more.

Happy 2008

2008-01-01T01:30:00.000-08:00

We wish you Health so that you may enjoy each day in comfort. We wish you the Love of Friends and family and peace within your heart. We wish you the Beauty of Nature that you may enjoy the work of God. We wish you Wisdom to choose priorities for those things that really matter in life. We wish you Generosity so that you may share all good things that come to you . We wish you Happiness & Joy and blessings for 2008 and the best of everything that you so well deserve!

Love Keith & Karen

Appreciate your friends

2007-12-23T11:40:00.000-08:00

live with intention.
walk to the edge.
listen hard.
practice wellness.
play with abandon.
laugh.
choose with no regret.
continue to learn.
appreciate your friends.
do what you love.
live as if this is all there is.
-mary anne radmacher

I'm all about spreading smiles, laughter and J.O.Y. happy Christmas all.
This is incredibly fabulous!! Enjoy!

Jean-The-Queen, My Mother

2007-12-20T05:58:00.000-08:00

Today I went to Blouberg Beach, it's a special place for me (and my family). I just wanted to be there, feet in the sand, wind in my hair, listening to the waves crash against the rocks. It was a good time to remember my darling mother, I miss her so much - but feel close to her there.

I was then reminded of a poem that someone sent me in a card when my Mom passed away, I'll share it with you, it brought great comfort during a difficult time.

Death is nothing at all, I have only slipped away into the next room. I am I, and you are you.
Whatever we are to each other, that we still are. Call me by my old familiar name,
speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference in your tone, wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Pray, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever
the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of a shadow on it. Life means
all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was: there is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, some-where very near, just round the corner.
“All is Well”

Henry Scott Holland, 1847-1918 Canon of St. Paul’s Cathedral

And so this is christmas ...

2007-12-19T11:54:00.000-08:00

And so this is christmas and what have you done
Another year over; a new one just begun
And so this is christmas, I hope you have fun
The near and the dear one, the old and the young
A merry merry christmas and a happy new year
Let's hope it's a good one without any fear

So this is christmas, for weak and for strong
The rich and the poor one, the road is so long
So happy christmas for black and for white
The yellow and red one, and stop all the fight
A merry merry christmas and a happy new year
Let's hope it's a good one without any fear

So this is christmas and what have we done
Another year over, a new one just begun
So happy christmas, I hope you have fun
The near and the dear one, the old and the young
A merry merry christmas and a happy new year
Let's hope it's a good one without any fear
- (john lennon, yoko ono)

Tigger ... Our Dog

2007-12-18T06:47:00.000-08:00

A life that touches the hearts of others goes on forever!

The cutest dog on planet. He believes he rules our house - guess he knows how to wrap us around his doggie leash.

Wouldn't have it any other way if you ask us.

Just to say that I have the best husband in the world

2007-12-17T11:40:00.000-08:00

Thanks for playing the money game. It was generous of you.
Love you lots.

When I need you
Just close my eyes and I'm with you
And all that I so want to give you babe
It's only a heartbeat away
- Rod Steward

There's something about a Cape Town Sunset ...

2007-12-15T11:45:00.000-08:00

Picture taken outside our house, Durbanville - Cape Town. Stunning!

Sunset Thinking
Do you ever watch the sunset
And just sit and think about things
Just you and the sky and darkness
Giving your thoughts some wings

Perhaps you’re got some troubles
And don’t know what to do
Or you just plain need to get away
To spend a little time with you
Sunset beauty makes you feel as though
Your life has meaning after all
To see a sight so extraordinary
Makes you feel capable, strong and tall

It’s funny how flashes of color
Like a sunset or sunrise can inspire
It can calm your inner self a bit
It’s a scene you can never tire

The serenity gives you a chance
To put things in perspective
Life can be overwhelming at times
And a sunrise can be reflective

So when the sky lights up next time
Let your gaze do some drinking
Soak up and the amazing sights
And do some sunset thinking!

Marilyn Lott

Happy 65th Birthday Dad

2007-12-05T10:13:00.000-08:00

My dad celebrated his 65th birthday today. What a privilege. Thank you God that we could share this day with him. We wish for him many more healthy happy years. The stars were even brighter last night, My Mom above, also shining down on my dad as he celebrates another year. Happy Birthday Dad.

Some random thoughts for today:

i don't like the wind - cape town is far too windy
i want to put a Xmas tree up this year - will shop for one this weekend
i seriously need to sort myself out with a diet & stick to it, early new years resolution
i enjoyed being with my dad last night for his birthday supper - i do worry about him
i wonder where my mom is, if she is looking down on me…
i am looking forward to having some time off over Xmas in a few weeks
sunshine makes me smile, but I'm more a winter baby
i posted my Xmas cards ... that's a first for me ...
i miss walks on the beach… I should do it more often ... I live in the most beautiful place in the world
i love to shop

Well have a good night everyone.

Cape Town, South Africa

2007-11-11T11:37:00.001-08:00

I've said it before, there is no place like home ... Blouberg Beach, Cape Town.

My Wish ... The Rascals

2007-11-04T06:18:00.000-08:00

Proudly South African

2007-10-21T11:40:00.001-07:00

Point Of Grace – How You Live

2007-10-07T04:26:00.000-07:00

Point Of Grace – How You Live
From the album How You Live

Wake up to the sunlight with your windows open
Don’t hold in your anger or leave things unspoken
Wear your red dress, use your good dishes
Make a big mess and make lots of wishes

And have what you want, but want what you have
And don’t spend your life looking back

Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances and let it all out
‘Cause you won’t regret it
Looking back from where you have been
‘Cause it’s not who you knew
And it’s not what you did
It’s how you live

So go to the ballgames and go to the ballet
And go see your folks more than just on the holidays
Kiss all your children, dance with your wife
Tell your husband you love him every night

Don’t run from the truth ’cause you can’t get away, no
Face it and you’ll be okay

(Chorus)

Oh, wherever you are and wherever you’ve been
Now is the time to begin
So give to the needy, and pray for the grieving
Even when you don’t think that you can
‘Cause all that you do is bound to come back to you
So think of your fellow man

And make peace with God, and make peace with yourself
‘Cause in the end, there’s nobody else

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GW1daW6k0LE

Animals in Africa

2007-09-28T12:42:00.000-07:00

Ladies Dinner - 27th Sept : Jade Court

2007-09-28T00:26:00.000-07:00

Thanks girls it was a good evening, sushi - eat as much as you can & we did. Enough Sushi for a while ...! See you all on the 25th October, Juliette looking forward to your suggestion for the evening.
pictured back left: Natalie, Sharon, Juliette, Karen, Nicole
front left: Kelli, Trudy & Sandy

2007-09-25T23:40:00.001-07:00

What's in a name ...

2007-09-25T04:34:00.000-07:00

2 of the 3 most important men in my life

2007-08-23T07:49:00.000-07:00

if you are wondering who the third is, it's my brother, Michael

In this photo, my dad and my husband - could a girl want for more?

Personal DNA Maps

2007-08-23T07:18:00.000-07:00

Things I learned from my mother

2007-05-02T07:13:00.001-07:00

1. When buying sweets candy for the house, make sure it’s something you hate or you’ll eat it all and have to go buy more.
2. How to harmonize and sing with my eyes closed.
3. Beware of short men.
4. People with a real sense of style don't wear black; anyone can wear black. Wearing color properly takes style.
5. Always wear socks to the gynecologist. You never know whose feet have been in those stirrups.
6. Communication is crucial to happiness.
7. Money buys freedom.
8. In times of pain, we do the most growing up.
9. Sometimes you have to suffer for beauty. No one said it was easy.
10. Never make fun of someone on public transprt for picking their nose because they might follow you home and wipe it on you.
11. Be careful with the gloss. Sometimes it looks like you just ate a lamb chop.
12. When traveling, never dress like a ragamuffin. Always wear clean underwear and dress handsomely.
13. To pretend you like it even if it’s vile. You’ll find a way to return it.
14. Have a dress coat and shoes for all seasons.
15. The man should always love the woman a smidge more.
16. Smile.
17. Don’t stick your arm out the window.
18. That kissing it really can make it better.
19. Don’t marry anyone who works for his family; they'll control your life.
20. Enunciate.
21. One won’t kill you.
22. If they are nice to you, but rude to the waiter, ask for the check.
23. When my hair is too long, I look like a country western singer.
24. Don’t wear silver and gold together.
25. Never pick up a hitchhiker.
26. To look the other way when I give blood.
27. Always have your own money stored away someplace safe.
28. It’s okay to tell people to fcuk off.
29. To always say “thank you,” even if you don’t mean it.
30. Don’t remove your shoes on airplanes; your feet swell and you might be unable to put them back on.
31. Don't make your mother cry on Mother's Day.
32. Always begin by saying, “Well I got it on sale.”
33. Never get floral curtains or anything too busy. “You’ll want to vomit.”
34. That the small ornaments belong at the top of the tree.
35. To be fearless.
37. Hot chocolate tastes better if someone else makes it for you.
38. That I’ll thank her one day for insisting I take time to notice the little things.
39. Bite your lips and pinch your cheeks.
40. To shave or wax the hair on your toes, too.
41. How to wrap presents.
42. To roast marshmallows in the toaster oven when there’s no fireplace.
43. That I have a vagina.
44. To pronounce the store W-o-o-l-w-o-r-t-h-s.
45. How to hover over public toilet bowls without touching anything.
46. Believe me, if it's going well, he won't be looking at your shoes.
47. If I’m running late with dinner, cook an onion and set the table, “It will appear as if you’ve been cooking all day.”
48. To move the crotch of a bathing suit to the side to pee instead of taking the whole thing off.
49. To make macoroni cheese and mashed potatoes.
50. To love Michael Bolton.
60. It’s all in the presentation.
61. Don’t over pluck your eyebrows.
62. Always have a black suit that fits.
63. Wear the most expensive accessories you can afford and you’ll always look put-together.
64. Sesame seeds contain calcium.
65. Posture.
66. Don’t lick your knife.
67. To ignore gossip.
68. Wearing white makes you feel clean.
69. Eat raw parsley for good breath.
70. Brush my tongue.
71. To drink my damn water.
72. To always use fresh garlic.
73. That I’m a terrible driver “The Worst!”
74. Have a glass of wine.
75. To appreciate chicken soup, magazines, extra blankets, chick flicks, and bedtime stories when I’m sick.
76. To love the holidays.
77. Passion.
78. How to be feminine: walk in heels, say excuse me (though I rarely do this), and personalize thank you notes.
79. Nobody cares if you can’t dance well, just get up and do it.
80. When navigating a nearly empty soup bowl, tilt it away from you and do the same with the spoon.
82. “Always remember your mother.”

Interesting

2007-05-02T05:14:00.000-07:00

At three minutes and four seconds after 2 AM on the 6th of May this year, the time and date will be:

02:03:04 05/06/07

This won't happen again in our lifetimes.

I am

2007-04-25T05:20:00.000-07:00

I Am ...

A wife
A friend
A sister
A daughter
A aunt
A niece
A lover
A artist
A dreamer
A decorator
A thinker
A bleeding heart
A muser
A housekeeper
Flower lover
Quiet
Encouraging
Easily depressed
A worrier
God fearing
God loving
God needing
A warrior
Living for my family
A super woman
Able to do 10 things at once (I know, I know, that's all?! Yes I know sometimes there's more I have to do at once I just can't do it ALL you know!)
A listener
Transfixed by adoration
Grateful
Blessed

Who are you?

Happy Birthday Keith

2007-04-17T05:32:00.000-07:00

If I were given a chance to be anything I wanted to become, there's noting I would rather be ...than your wife.
And there is no one I would rather have ...as my husband.
Happy birthday Babes.

2007-03-27T08:01:00.000-07:00

Sad!

2007-03-26T03:04:00.000-07:00

I hate this.

I was totally rooting for her, but alas, more sadness.

Gotta go. I'll try to write more often, but jeez, there's just nothing going on.

6 Years Ago ....

2007-03-23T00:45:00.001-07:00

When I married you I married someone who means the world to me. As time has passed by, I have come to know the deepest warmth & the sweetest smiles anyone has ever known. And I want you to know that there's no place in the universe I'd rather be ... than cuddled up with you in the comfort of our home. Strawberry.

Find Your Smile

2007-03-23T00:03:00.000-07:00

Find Your Smile because........

you have found the strength to let go of some of the negative...

you have learned who your true friends are in a time of personal crisis, they are few...

you are learning a lot about life...

you have conquered another day, and yet another....

you have had your faith tested and confirmed that it is still strong...

you have lowered your expectations of people and yourself...

you have allowed bliss, laughter and hope to enter your heart...

you have the ability to create your own happiness even during the darkness...

you have a stunning smile, why not share it, eh?...

your eyes sparkle when you smile. they do....

you held your head at just the right angle so your double chin is less noticeable...

you bring light to others even when you are in darkness...

you know you have the courage to spill open ...

you know you have a plethora of true blessings to be thankful for...

you know it just feels better to smile...

you have a husband that rides the waves with you, loving you all along...

you have so much to offer, time to start believing it and living it.

Human Right's Day / Birthday

2007-03-22T00:50:00.000-07:00

Today the 21st of March is Human Rights Day in South Afric a.
It's also my birthday.
Keith totally surprised me with a surprise birthday at Cubana Green Point. I mean he who can't even keep a secret for 5 minutes, kept this one from me for 2 weeks. I'm so grateful to share my life with a wonderful man who still wants to surprise me, thanks Babes.

There are 3 great moments that I can recall sharing with him, the 1st our engagement in Scotland, Edinburgh Castle, we travelled thousands of miles in the air he with the engagement ring and I was none the wiser ..., the 2nd when he converted my Mom & Dad's wedding 8mm film into a DVD for me to watch (my darling Mom had passed away and he never got the opportunity to meet her, which makes this one even more of a surprise as he did it all for me) and the 3rd was my surprise party, Love you Babes.

Live it Up

2007-03-14T06:58:00.000-07:00

I have my favourite blogs that I read daily, as I'm still new to this myself I need to find out how one goes about adding people's blogs to my site, help!
But today I read my two favourites and both of them had wonderful news ... quite co-incidentally they both found out that they are pregnant.
Now I'm not sure what the correct protocol is when it comes to blogging but one of my favourites is http://tertia.typepad.com/so_close/ and the other one is http://www.chiaravalle.co.za/diary_nadine/index.html both are stunning souls and have walked the path. I wish them both happiness and good health in their pregnancy and no doubt will follow their blog until the new babies arrive. Good luck Ladies!

Love like a mother

2007-03-12T04:40:00.000-07:00

Now I know, there is no love like a mother's love for her child - Celine Dion

To the man that still gives me butterflies after all these years.... I love you. Thank you for loving me.

2007-03-09T01:07:00.000-08:00

"I Don't Wanna Miss a Thing" by Aerosmith

I could stay awake just to hear you breathing
Watch you smile while you are sleeping
Far away and dreaming
I could spend my life in this sweet surrender
I could stay lost in this moment forever
Well, every moment spent with you
Is a moment I treasure
I don't wanna close my eyes
I don't wanna fall asleep'Cause I'd miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing'
Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream will never doI'd still miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing
Lying close to you
Feeling your heart beating
And I'm wondering what you're dreaming
Wondering if it's me you're seeing
Then I kiss your eyes and thank God we're together
And I just wanna stay with you
In this moment forever, forever and ever
I don't wanna close my eyes
I don't wanna fall asleep'
Cause I'd miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing'
Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream will never doI'd still miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing
I don't wanna miss one smile
I don't wanna miss one kiss
Well, I just wanna be with you
Right here with you, just like thisI just wanna hold you close
Feel your heart so close to mine
And stay here in this moment
For all the rest of time
Don't wanna close my eyes
Don't wanna fall asleep'
Cause I'd miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing'
Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream will never do'
Cause I'd still miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thingI don't wanna close my eyes
I don't wanna fall asleep'
Cause I'd miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing'
Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream will never doI'd still miss you, babe

No-where else in the world I'd rather be ... than Cape Town

2007-03-07T05:48:00.000-08:00

2007-02-26T23:41:00.000-08:00

100 Thing's About Me

2007-02-22T23:54:00.000-08:00

100 things about me

1. I was born in Cape Town on the 21st of March 1970 … don’t know the exact time … how can I find that out now?
2. Therefore don’t quite know what birth sign I am on the cusp of Pieces & Aries.
3. I have one sibling, my brother Michael, who is three years younger than me and worlds cleverer, who I love like, well like a brother.
4. We talk on the phone daily.
5. I was always ‘mommy’s’ girl but now I'm a 'daddy's girl'
6. My parents got married in April 1968. My dad’s id book says he got married on the 12th April, my mom’s said the 09th .. who was confused?
7. Mom gave me my appreciation of books and music & lots of other little things as well – for that I will always be grateful.
8. Mom was also responsible for me being who I am today, she was an example.
9. I have many cousins and my mom always taught us the importance of family and friendships. The last cousin I met was over the internet via email … we still need to meet face-to-face but we are family and that’s what is important.
10. Our house was always filled with music & laughter.
11. My mom taught me how to draw portraits & appreciate art. I still love doing craft work (when I’m in the mood that is)
12. Saturdays at our house in my childhood was my favourite time. We’d (my brother and I) be totally spoilt, get to go with mom to buy comics and sweets, come home devour sweets and ‘veg’ out with comics.
13. In junior school I never excelled academically although I remember winning a prize for speech & drama.
14. I chose a bad high school when I was 12 because ‘all the cools kids were doing it’ and we’d just moved into the area. I stayed there a year and moved to another school in Gardens, Cape Town. Met my SIL there!
15. I still have contact with 2 of the girls I went to school with (S & V) (excluding my SIL, Jaqui & Tania).
16. At school, the only thing I learnt was how to be a bitch (probably a good lesson in hindsight) – nah only joking but it help me anyway.
17. I was a dreamer in high school, often reading a fiction novel in the back of the class. My school reports mostly said, “Karen must wake up and pay attention!” nah not really but it could have said that.
18. I really loved English though and was told I had a talent for writing.
19. I used to wear black masacara to school.
20. We didn’t have many boys at our school, 4 I think? SIL you need to help me remember this? 21. SIL and I used to plan our Friday night’s out as early as a Monday in typing class, we’d plan what we were going to wear etc & the best part before we went out on a Friday night was eating Cheryl’s kos! Lekker memories!!
22. Looking back, it was fun to club and a lot safer than it is now-a-days.
23. It was fun – I miss those days.
24. Looking back now school was not that bad and it’s amazing how often one things back to “the good ol days” the music was good 80’s – depeche mode, rick astley, knickerbockers, shoulder-pads. Good times!
25. I kissed a FEW boys during those years but remained chaste (love that word).
26. I was a virgin up until age 18 when I met B, Mr. Unsuitable the 1st. Mother immediately got paranoid and put me on the pill. Good thing too else I could’ve wound up on welfare with 6 children (am only HALF kidding!)
27. I stayed with B for FOUR, yes four, years and was faithful to him for all that time. He was at the time, the best thing since sliced bread. My parents were always weary of him but tolerated him cos they loved me.
28. During this period I worked as a receptionist then bank clerk. My life revolved around little else but B even to the detriment of my other friends.
29. I wasn’t a goth, but I LOVED black clothing.
30. I’m wondering if I can tell you 100 things about me you don’t perhaps already know.
31. I never smoked or can’t recall drinking much either – perhaps a few Esprit’s.
32. B & I even went as far as looking at engagement rings.
33. I was 21.8yrs when we split up and thought I was ‘over the hill’ and would never meet anyone else ever again. I thought my world would come to an end. I wanted my world to come to an end.
34. I met several people (let’s not go there right now).
35. When I was 22 I had a breast reduction.
36. I made sure that I told B I had had it done! L-O-N-G story!
37. I’ve never had a broken bone – always wanted to have plaster of paris.
38. I didn’t do any drugs (well unless you count diet pills) till the age of 22.
39. I then had an experimental stage with one joint. It was fun. Hey! And it was with my Mom – does that count?
40. I survived this phase thankfully and am grateful for that.
41. During this time I met 1 of my good girlfriends - Sandy. We were the Horlicks Queens. Did I mention it was fun?
42. My friend, Sandy and I once took her new red citi golf to for a drive … we ended up in Ceres at the Belmont Hotel with “stuffed” watermelons. Did I mention it was fun?
43. I will remember that Saturday for ever, it was impulsive and great fun.
44. I’m glad I am still friends with Sandy.
45. Sandy and I both lived in Edgemead – we met through our brothers who are still friends as well.
46. My parents were still married until my mom passed away in August 1998. I miss my mom more than anyone will ever believe.
47. I have lost a few good people and miss them also.
48. Of whom I miss my Mom the most. She was my best friend.
49. And saw me through the best and worst of times.
50. I have had one-night stands, which I am not proud of.
51. I have only gotten drunk once where I puked – never again and I’m not proud to admit it. It was black sambuca and it was in front of GB.
52. I remember the hangover, so bad I could literally not move my head, just sat there and groaned.
53. I can’t stand the smell of sambuca. All my other vices are gone
54. Ok except shopping!
55. I live near one of the best Cape winelands – Durbanville – lovely house.
56. Up until age 30 I had not accumulated much ‘house stuff’ .
57. I thought I would stay at home forever.
58. Then I was introduced to Keith by my SIL. Thanks SIL!
59. We dated for 2 years and got engaged in Scotland on Edinburgh Castle… and my aunt made it a memory I’ll never forget … and we had real champagne & strawberries.
60. It was a complete surprise engagement. Very romantic too!
61. I do not regret a single moment of my life.
62. I wonder if I will regret not becoming a mother
63. I think motherhood inherently changes one
64. It makes you see it’s actually NOT all about you. Hey! Who knew?
65. My oldest friendship I have dates back to 1976 – Tracey O – we have known each other for 30 years.
66. My oldest friend hails back to my first year in junior school. We are reviving our friendship. It’s great to know I had good taste when I was 6.
67. I cry a lot in sad movies.
68. I love reading books that make you feel something. I cry a lot in those too. I love Marian Keyes.
69. I dunk rusks & toasted fish paste in my rooibos tea. Most people hate this about me.
70. Oh I forgot, I almost gave up eating meat when I was with B. I almost did give up a lot of things to keep him happy.
71. I have exposed my skin to too much sun tanning in my youth, the ravages of which are now showing a couple of freckles here and there. I do regret that but hey there’s always Botox!
72. I’ve never had a perfect body!
73. Except my toes, I have really ugly stunning toes – stop laughing SIL.
74. And no bunions.
75. I believe in God.
76. I also believe there is more than one path to God.
77. I believe in my family and friends. I cherish the relationships.
78. I am in need of a serious diet.
79. Am too scared to don a bather this summer.
80. Therefore am considering sarongs and perhaps a frilled-hold-it-all-in one-piece.
81. I procrastinate
82. I am really bad with money and budgeting.
83. I am going to start a serious saving plan soon.
84. I live in the most beautiful city in the world,
85. I’ve been overseas a few times but nothing beats the beauty of Cape Town South Africa.
86. I have a plan to visit overseas again next year. Then again due to (81) and (82) this might never materialize.
87. I can make my friends laugh.
88. Although I was never the life and soul of any party – I love being entertained by others though.
89. Now I just amuse my husband. Often.
90. I believe in the concept of soul mates but also that there is more than one for any given person.
91. I think I have met one so far in my life, my husband K.
92. I love my husband more than life itself, although some days it doesn’t always sound that way.
93. I was introduced to Mr. Right by my best friend from school and now she’s my SIL.
94. I was almost proposed to (see 32) HEY! Duh!
95. I’m learning about myself here as I think of 100 things about me.
96. I would do it again though, in a heartbeat.
97. I can be a bitch. Some people at the end of bad customer service are scared of me. T was scared when she met me and she’s scary herself so I must be!
98. I am shy and insecure in a lot of ways
99. But I am conquering that, the older and wiser I become.
100. This was fun, hope you enjoy the read and weirdness in my space!

Keith & Karen

2007-02-15T23:21:00.000-08:00

Michael & Sharon Get Married

2007-02-15T22:52:00.000-08:00

My Brother and Sharon got married on 23rd December 2006, here's wishing them a life of happiness, good memories, laughter, dishes and babies ....

Cape Town

2006-06-26T06:58:00.000-07:00

Cape Town is the place to be ...
This photo was taken from Milnerton Beach, Cape Town, Stunning SA. Hope you enjoy the view.